I know i haven't written in a very long time. I've been busy. really busy
However,
During that time, i did manage to find trouble. It was bad.
But! we pledge to be optimistic and always look for the good points
So the plus point was that even though i got affected by all the events negatively
Still i got exposed to new struggles and problems and those made me access my abilities i never thought i could muster from deep within.
It made me learn a few lesson or two.
Now id like to share something.
In the past, i used to be paranoid. A lot.
Always over thinking the small issues
As i grew older and was trying to become a better and improved version of my self, I found myself shrugging all my paranoid thoughts. Shrugging every red flag, every warning my brain gave me
I thought i was bettering myself. Unfortunately, i was letting my vigilance down to an alarming point. I was becoming too trusting
This led to a very nasty experience.
But i want others to learn from my mistake.
So i want to put out some advice
I know. We all dont wanna be rude or whatever.
But you never know what kind of a shitty asshole might be on the other end.
Internet hardly ever has nice ppl on it.
So be smart.
Be safe
I hope you have a good life ahead
xScarlet
However,
During that time, i did manage to find trouble. It was bad.
But! we pledge to be optimistic and always look for the good points
So the plus point was that even though i got affected by all the events negatively
Still i got exposed to new struggles and problems and those made me access my abilities i never thought i could muster from deep within.
It made me learn a few lesson or two.
Now id like to share something.
In the past, i used to be paranoid. A lot.
Always over thinking the small issues
As i grew older and was trying to become a better and improved version of my self, I found myself shrugging all my paranoid thoughts. Shrugging every red flag, every warning my brain gave me
I thought i was bettering myself. Unfortunately, i was letting my vigilance down to an alarming point. I was becoming too trusting
This led to a very nasty experience.
But i want others to learn from my mistake.
So i want to put out some advice
- NEVER trust anyone too quickly, esp online
- If someone is being too open with you about their problems, being nice to you to the point you get suspicious because you guys just met, DON'T ignore the instincts
- Be suspicious. It's more than OK to question someone's motive.
- Always think of a reason why, if someone is being exceptionally nice to you. Do ask yourself: "What could they gain from all this?"
- Say NO when needed.
- Mostly the ppl who wanna take advantage of you will try to gain sympathy, Show themselves as poor souls. DONT believe them too easily
I know. We all dont wanna be rude or whatever.
But you never know what kind of a shitty asshole might be on the other end.
Internet hardly ever has nice ppl on it.
So be smart.
Be safe
I hope you have a good life ahead
xScarlet